Tuesday, December 26, 2006

Auckland for Christmas

Well, I made it to New Zealand - after 36 hours of travelling! My plane was delayed for two hours, sitting on the tarmac, and then the London - Los Angles - Auckland plane journey is the very longest that you can do! But, I seem to have escaped the jet lag so far, although I am getting tired at the end of each day. That's because my parents are wearing me out... but we had a lovely Christmas in Auckland, although it wasn't that sunny, but we did go to a few beaches and see lots of nice scenery!

And yesterday, Boxing Day, instead of pigging out on the remains of the turkey etc, we went to the Coromandel peninsula, saw lots of lovely beach, the Pacific Ocean, and had lots of lovely seafood.

Today is our last day in Auckland, and then it's on to Bangkok for me to be reunited with my lovely John, and on to Christchurch for the parents, to commence their tour of South Island and Lord of the Rings land - shame neither of them have seen the films. But then, neither have I - I tried to watch the first one again on the plane, and quit half way through, because it's just still boring!!

So, happy day-after-Boxing-Day to you all - I hope you've all had a fantastic Christmas and are looking forward to the New Year - and that work isn't too grim for those who are there tomorrow and Friday.

And, very many Congratulations to Steve and Sally, who got engaged just before Christmas... another wedding to add to the list! Just Fab.

More later, if there's a computer anywhere. Bye...!

Monday, December 18, 2006

Pre Christmas Stress Disorder

I have it. But I'm holding it back... I lost my voice last week, and my passport this week. So, now, I'm typing this from my parent's house in Jersey (they're not here, they're in Sydney), where my brother should be (but isn't, he's in London), when I should be in London, and he should be in Jersey. Hmpf.

Reason for being in Jersey: the only way to get a new passport before I fly to New Zealand on Friday, all being well to pick it up at midday tomorrow that is.

Reason for missing passport: who knows. It's a most "un-Kate like" thing to do, as my Mum helpfully pointed out as I was winging my way to Gatwick on the train this morning - although she was most helpful in providing the exact location of my birth certificate for me, so that was rather handy! Thanks Mum.

Bonus good things of being in Jersey: dinner with Debbie and David, unplanned coffee (after surprising them rather well) with Jenny and her Mum, and buying a shony new camera, in time to take on travels, at a knock down price with lots of extras thrown in. With thanks to the nice man in Fotosound who took pity on me, and to my wonderful John, who is buying it for me for Christmas, and has remained admirably calm through the traumas, despite at the moment being at the tail end of a 20 hour train journey to Malaysia. Thanks babe.

In other news: I've finally finished reading Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy. The verdict? Rubbish! On to War and Peace now. Yes, really.

Sunday, November 26, 2006

I am still here...

I still exist. It has, I admit, been an unprecedented gap between posts this time. Lots has been happening of course, not least that my parents have now set off on their three month adventure round the world, which is most exciting, and has made my trip to New Zealand etc at Christmas seem to come round much faster.

Also, very many congratulations to Pete and Helen, who got engaged on Friday night. Another wedding to look forward to, it's all just fab!

Anyway, probably can't promise an update soon, but there will certainly be some during travels over Christmas I think!

Monday, October 16, 2006

IT utopia

A strange phenomenon happens in my office every now and then... my team call it 'the Kate IT rage'. It happens rather more often than is good for my health - or theirs - or in particular the health of the IT team, and has happened rather a lot recently, especially on Friday, when I was attempting to work from home, and completely failed because I couldn't get the broadband to work properly.

But, now, thanks to some excellent assistance from a very diligent IT man who came to my flat this evening for three hours, everything is all in working order - I can even check my work emails sitting on my bed in my pj's if I want to!

So, if only I could get my I-Pod working again and figure out how to resurrect the copy of my old template which Blogger was allegedly saving indefinitely when I upgraded to Beta, but doesn't appear to have done so, and therefore get some useful bits of template back, I'd be in IT utopia I think.

As it is, such a thing clearly does not exist!

Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Sniff

Meh. I hate colds.

More soon. Am playing with upgrading to Beta Blogger, so there will be some changes in appearance!

Monday, October 02, 2006

Dormant, but not dead

It's been a while. My travels were great, but they were also demanding, tiring, exhausting... and I've not quite recovered. As soon as I got back from Canada, it was straight to work - the holiday period is well and truly over.

Lots of wonderful things have happened since then:

- My parents spent some time in London, so I spent a lot of time catching up with them, which was brilliant, and we had an excellent meal at the Oxo Tower, and then an (even though I do say it myself) excellent Sunday dinner here... the key thing about this is that John met my parents, and my parents went John - and it all went pretty well, they seem to like each other! I discovered that John also makes excellent roast pork!

- I went to Jersey for Debbie's hen night - which was just brilliant - we had a lovely spa day and then an excellent meal in the evening. Not such a good plan to stay out at a party until 4am, but nevermind!

- And then, to top it all and end the month of September in style, Debbie and David's wedding. Words fail me a bit because it was such an amazing day and a fantastic weekend - the day was just perfect, the service touching, the food and drink spot on, and the company brilliant. John met all my 'local friends' and went down a storm, and it couldn't have been better. Mixing Bloody Mary's in the honesty bar of the hotel at 3am guaranteed another late night though... and then John had a whistle stop tour of Jersey, in the rain!

One thing I've been reflecting on as the weekend concludes is how great it was to have all of the 'girls' together - Debbie, Jenny, Jenna, Charlotte, Nikki and me. We all went out, as is traditional, on Christmas Eve last year, and calculated that it was the first time we'd all been together in about 5 years (memory failures meant we couldn't be quite sure, we must be getting old!). I said, rather drunkenly in a speech at the end of the meal, that we needed more weddings... and sure enough, within three weeks, we had two engagements!

The hen nights and weddings have meant that we've all been together four times this year, which has been totally fab (and with partners at the weddings, mostly, too!). A very happy Kate... apart from a three hour delay to get back to London last night.

And also, wedding news from this side of the channel - Tania and Rich got engaged on Wednesday, which is brilliant news - and it seems they don't fancy a long engagement, so roll on their wedding, the first amongst the Act2 people... can't wait!

That'll mean (if I get invited!) that I've been to 8 weddings in the past three years, and have four to come next year... good job I love them!

Photos will be in the usual place soon - although not as many as usual, it's more difficult to take loads when you're actually involved in the day!

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Toronto

A very brief one, just to say that I'm safe and sound in Toronto, work is going well so far, big event today so will see how that goes - and then going to Niagra Falls tomorrow, so that will be very good. What will not be very good though is going into work straight from the plane on Thursday morning, but nevermind!

More when my body has finally worked out which time zone it needs to be in ie London from Thursday please!

Thursday, September 07, 2006

Just...

about caught up with the jet lag. Need to get back on track before going to Canada, and therefore going the other way around the time zones, on Saturday.

Our internet has been playing up, so pictures not quite yet ready, but hopefully before the end of this evening they will be in the usual place.

More on my return from Canada... or whilst I'm there if I get chance!

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

And so it ends....

So. I'm in the amazingly (a frequently occurring word on here lately it seems) plush Business Class lounge at Bali Airport, politely refusing all the rather nice looking food they are trying to offer me, having in mind that I am going to be fed three three course meals (supper, dinner and then breakfast) over the course of my trek home - which from this point on will take 18 and a half hours - although it's 6.30 pm here and I'll land in London at 6am local time, so that's seriously going to mess with my body clock (and then I'm going straight to work... zzz). I'm a bit worried about what state I will be in by the time I've been in London for a few days and then been to Canada and back... but bridges crossing and all that.

I'm kind of ready to come home, but at the same time would also like to stay here infinitely. I've reached the point where I'm quite relaxed, have caught up on some sleep, and have confirmed that (although I've missed people, and one person in particular, a lot) I'm quite happy with my own company for 6 days. I can't help but feel that in order to relax completely, I need to be away from work for about three weeks, maybe more. I've not had a holiday that long since I was 17. But, hopefully this break has been enough to rejuvenate those slightly weary batteries to get me through the next stretch at work... and then my trip to New Zealand, Thailand and Cambodia at Christmas can do the same... and then ditto for a trip to Italy at Easter. Such bunny hops around the world are fantastic, but one day (perhaps at the culmination of this current job) I think they need to lead to a three to four week complete break.

I think I can confidently say now that I've fulfilled at least one of my New Year's resolutions - to travel more. Big tick.

I've also managed to read a lot on this trip too. I finished two books I'd already started: The Notebook Dress - excellent, I want to know what happens next, when is part two out Al?!; and The Return of the King - not so excellent. Sorry in advance to all LOTR devotees, but my verdict is boring: It takes three sentences in the middle of book 6 for the Ring, the whole point of the epic three volume novel, to be destroyed when Gollum falls into a firey hole, three paragraphs for the King to be restored, and then a hundred pages for them all to get home and live happily ever after!!! I am however glad that I read it. I can tick the book which is at the top of the BBC Big Read list I'm slowly ploughing my way through, and it is kind of a book that everyone should have read - but I can't help but agree with my Mum's theory that the films are a major factor as to why it is at the top, rather than because all those people who voted for it have actually read the book.

I've also finished Memoir of a Geisha, which I found fell into the unputdownable category - so an ideal holiday book. Very very good, although the ending was a bit predictable. I've nearly finished (and expect to do so on the plane) On Beauty, which I'm galloping through - also very very good. I'm impressed with the small observations in it, which is exactly what the critics said when she (Zadie Smith) was awarded the Orange Pize and shortlisted for the Booker Prize. Should that run out on the plane, I'll be on to Roald Dahl's Boy and Going Solo - because I've not read them for ages, they were on sale in Singapore Airport, and were a worthy purchase in exchange for some left over Singapore Dollars.

Anyway, back to the original point of this post - I'm shortly going to leave Bali. It is also an amazing place. All three of the places I've been to on my first visit to Asia are. The hotel I stayed in in Sanur, Bali, was right on the beach front, and I've done very little for the past few days other than wander round the beach and the pool, read, and soak up the sun (with the aid of a large quantity of sunscreen). My room, an individual bungalow with an outside shower, private sun terrace, and four poster bed, was extremely comfortable and deserved to be shared with someone.

As I'm leaving, I'm resolving that I will definitely come back to Bali sometime, hopefully in the not to distant future. Because I was focussing on not doing very much, I didn't do any trips to the volcanos, rice terraces, or Ubud, the artist's area. I've chalked them up to do on a return visit.

So, my thoughts turn to returning to work. So much to do, and so little time - but at least I can approach it all with a slightly clearer head now.

In other parts of the world - congratulations to Steve and Sally, who have just exchanged on their new house and will be moving tomorrow - looking forward to seeing it, and sorry I can't be there to help - although you're probably grateful for that because there would probably be more accidents!

Friday, September 01, 2006

Paradise

If Singapore was amazing, then this place is out of this world. It's like a private topical paradise... private beach, amazing food, fantastic room, wonderful weather... I'm running out of words to describe it.

Suffice to say I am a very very happy Kate today.

I'm off for dinner... I'm going to have the catch of the day, because I watched the man catch it earlier, standing in the sea just offshore from the hotel. And then I'm going to go to the candlelight bar, and drink a Macallan 12 Year in honour of a very special man.

Thursday, August 31, 2006

Leaving Singapore...

Today is our last day in Singapore. It is such an amazing place. I'll put a longer post about it up sometime, but for now I've got to run, no packing done and leaving in an hour. Hmpf. It's also torrentially pouring with rain - which it hasn't done for about four weeks apparently. Nice of it to occur when we're meant to be going to the Botanic Gardens!

Lombok this afternoon beckons - and I can't wait. Not least because I'll be able to switch the alarm clock off and just let time wander on by without worrying about where to be when (apart from connecting flight to Bali on Sunday!). I'm not sure how much internet access I'll have from here on in, or how much I'll be inclined to use it, so there may not be any activity until I get back... but then again there might.

Thank you all for your comments by the way, very nice to read them in times of stress! James - it is indeed an amazing place. I'd love to give you loads of recommendations on where to go, but I've only been to two places outside of work: (1) to have a singapore sling in the Long Bar at Raffles, highly recommended just because you have to do it rather than because the drink is actually that nice (although I like it, but you really have to like sweet cocktails). You can get half yards of Tiger beer in there too though; and (2) the Palm Beach Seafood Restaurant at One Fullerton - highly recommended, right on the river waterfront, and serves excellent seafood, including a local signature dish, creamy crab (or pepper crab, chilli crab, butter crab... you get the idea!) and jugs of Tiger (note the recurring theme there!) I hope you have a great time and manage to escape work a bit more frequently than I have!

Tuesday, August 29, 2006

Business Class

Business Class is brilliant. The service was perfect, just attentive enough without being too much, the food was excellent (including warm bread, crockery, real cutlery (apart from the knives) and individual salt and pepper pots!), and the booze was flowing (although I was restrained, not least because I had a very sore throat (now easing off, thankfully!).

The only slight annoyance was the application of the new restrictions on hand luggage - which was basically patchy. I packed a bag exactly the size allowed, and made sure that I didn't have anything which could be taken away at security. Others didn't seem to have the same idea though, and had big rucksacks and other large bags on the plane with them... so the rule isn't being applied consistently, which is frustrating if nothing else.

Singapore is an amazing place. Everything is spotlessly clean, and the service is amazing in its efficiency, nothing is too much trouble. London could learn a few things in a few places I think!

The work aspect is going ok, but I'm looking forward to concluding this part of the trip and moving on to relaxing on the beach, reading lots and finally getting some chill out time.

In the meantime, I'm going to the rooftop pool for a swim...

More soon

Sunday, August 27, 2006

Happy Belated Birthday to my blog

I meant to post this on the 23rd, but forgot. That was the first birthday of this blog. When I started it, just after we came back from Edinburgh last year, I really wasn't sure how long it would last, but, it's still here. And I think some people are still reading it.

A hell of a lot has changed in the past year, and this blog has noted some of that. It has avoided some of it, because of Dooce-esque reasons and the need to retain some privacy, but there have been some highlights and funny moments.

My posting rate has varied, most recently dipping off a bit, but I think the blog is here to stay.

I'm currently in the Business Class lounge at Heathrow. The laptop is finally behaving itself with the wireless trickery, so hopefully I should be able to post some updates whilst on my travels.

Ciao for now.

Saturday, August 26, 2006

Singapore bound

Tomorrow, I leave for the much awaited trip to Singapore. It's a work trip, and I'm expecting it to be taxing, but I also have six days in Lombok and Bali on holiday to look forward to, so it's not all bad.

I'm really looking forward to the sitting on the beach relaxing bit - although I'll be on my own, and it'll be the first time I've done any travelling on my own. I'll also miss a certain person rather a lot I think.

In other news, since I last wrote, John and I went on a fab impromptu day trip to Brighton, we've been to the races in York (didn't win much, but had a very good day nonetheless!) and met my Bro, Lorna, and her bro for a nice fry up in the Sharm... all good.

Packing, however, is not good.

The hard drive on my laptop has been certified as dead, so I have a new one. I might be able to get some internet access whilst I'm away (for the first bit anyway, not planning on going anywhere near a computer for the second bit!) so may be able to update, if not, more when I get back!

Sunday, August 20, 2006

The remainder of the Edinburgh Madness

After the laptop got Fished, my internet access was substantially reduced (although many thanks to Tom for letting me borrow his). This meant two things:

1) Photos

There were no daily updates of photos. You can now find Day 3, Day 4, Day 6 and Day 8 in their respective places.

There were no photos taken by me on Day 5 or Day 7, for entirely different reasons. On Day 5, I spent most of the day in bed, recovering from Day 4. On Day 7 it was quite simply too wet. More on both of those days below.


2) Blogs


There were no more daily blogs after Day 4 and a half. The remainder of the week (or at least what I can remember of it!) is here:

The rest of Day 4

After finally finishing some annoying online stuff, I felt far more able to relax. Richelle had planned a bar crawl in intricate detail, and we were all very much looking forward to it. Apart from me. As a relic from last year, Pete, Richelle and Rich had devised Edinburgh bingo. Each person had a ‘star’ challenge, and mine was to sing karaoke. I just don’t do karaoke. I can’t sing, and for someone who is usually fairly confident on a stage in whatever form, I was quite frankly petrified. If you look closely at the pics from the beginning of the night you can see the fear in my eyes!

Many drinks later, I finally managed to get up there and sing ‘Can’t Take My Eyes Off You’ – very very badly. Pete, Helen and Richelle came up with me though and provided very effective support, for which I am eternally grateful.

Of course once that ordeal was over, there was little else to do but drink…. And the photos will tell the rest of the story.

Day 5

Day 5… uhh, what happened on Day 5… ummm…. Oh yeah, I stayed in bed all day pondering why on earth I drank so much! And then scared myself by looking at the 200 photos which were taken (not all of which have made it on to Flickr!). Having finally stated to feel human again, we went to see Bill Bailey. Now, I’m not usually a fan of stand up comedy (my views on it having been partly poisoned by Steve’s Eddie Izzard obsession), but Tom persuaded me to give Bill a try when he booked the tickets, and of the mind that part of the point of the Fringe Festival is seeing stuff that you usually wouldn’t.

Despite the fact that I wasn’t in the complete-row-of-seat-rocking convulsive laughter league of Pete, Rich and Richelle, I did find him very funny.

Save the invisible mouse….

Day 6

Having fully recovered from the nightmare hangover (feeling extremely thankful that it didn’t mutate into a Two-Dayer), I was back on form for Day 6, which was good, because the pace of show viewing really picked up. Following lunch at the Mussel Inn (a welcome change from deep fried creations), we saw Chanbara in the afternoon – very good action with swords and drums, and just round the corner from the flat. Then it was on to the Underbelly for We Don’t Know Shiite, starring Pete’s brother Doug.

The show was excellent, and most thought provoking. It’s attracted all sorts of attention, and it sounds like the group may be destined for bigger things in the very near future… break a leg guys!

Then, it was on to the fabulous Bar Kohl for flavoured vodka and stunningly good cocktails. We’d actually been in there on Day 4, but of course I don’t really remember it… the photos prove I was there though! So, I made the most of it the second time round and consumed lots of yummily flavoured alcoholic things.

Then, it was on to the Speigel Tent for La Clique – the tent is a marque which feels like a cabaret venue inside, complete with seating booths and stained glass windows, and the show is essentially a burlesque cabaret. It was excellent, although some of the acts were slightly on the odd side, even for us lot!

Then home…. For more drink, of course!

Day 7

Mercifully hangover free, by now we were craving some wholesome food, so Pete Helen and I had Japanese for lunch… and then joined Tom, Richelle and Rich for beer and chips. So the wholesome thing didn’t exactly last long, but at least we tried!

We then headed to the other side of the city to see Kataklo, which was an amazing acrobatic dance show. Well worth it, but we got totally soaked on the way there, and only just dried out on the way back… I was wet all the way through!

So, a slightly more subdued evening, and then prep for the journey home…

Day 8

Which was generally uneventful and therefore doesn’t really deserve much more than that!

On Edinburgh 2006 overall:

I think a good time was had by all – it was a very different trip from last year, because we weren’t doing a show. Things were much more chilled out, much more of a ‘do your own thing’ effect, and I think everyone appreciated that, I certainly did, mainly because it allowed me to do more sleeping than usual, which I seemed to need. My body is still recovering from an accumulated sleep deficit I think!

Big thanks go to Pete for organising the train travel, accommodation, and some of the shows – not a mean feat for 15 or so people! Thoughts are already turning to next year and the possibility of doing another show… but that’s all a bit beyond my thinking at the moment!

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Half of Day Four of the Edinburgh Madness 2006 TM

I've finally managed to get the stupid online test to work, so, it's done, and out of the way, and I'm feeling much much better for it.

That is assisted I think, by the fact that the day started with a Gutbuster = the biggest fried breakfast ever encountered. It was amazing. Last year we weren't able to have one, because they don't usually do them during the festival, but this year Richelle turned on her magic charms and persuaded them to do a special order for us. Yum yum yum. Of course there are photographs, but I can't put them on here until I return etc (see the 'Fished' bit in previous post!)

Now, it's slightly after that, and room has been made for afternoon tea.

More soon

PS I think these entries are getting a bit mundane. I'm just not funny enough when I'm not drunk. I'll get my guest blogger to come up with some suggestions tonight (during the Brundle pub crawl) and unleash them on you tomorrow!

Monday, August 14, 2006

Day Three in the Edinburgh Madness 2006 TM

Well. Day three (Monday) was a bit of a wash out for me. There was a slight hint of a hangover, but the Tania/ Pete porridge soon saw that off. Then, I had some deeply frustrating IT issues whilst trying to do a test online - and then my laptop got Fished. That's a technical term for an IT hard drive failure, and it happens when things pass through the hands of the Ginger Rich. Tom and Raoul have been absolute stars in trying to get it fixed with boot keys and downloads and all sorts, but it's not quite there yet! Hopefully it will be fixed soon, because I really need it for the rest of my travels, but for now, my internet access has been restricted.

Should still be able to blog a bit, although maybe not every day. The worst casualty is that I won't be able to upload any more daily photo sets, as I don't have the software with me to do that on any of the other computers the lovable geeks have here! So, they will all come in a bit chunk when I return at this rate - thank god for 1Gb memory cards!

We did see a very good show today though, Talk Radio, with Mike McShane. And then beer and pizza, and a viewing of the excellently edited DVD version of Act 2's latest production, Electric Candlelight. All good. Still not quite relaxed though, but I'm getting there!

Sunday, August 13, 2006

Day 2 in the Edinburgh Madness 2006TM

Day two: shows are booked, steak has been consumed, and whiskey has been drunk. All is well with the world (well, the tiny part of it that is Edinburgh that is!).

After taking some reasonably ok photos on Saturday, last night became Rubbish Photo Night. Some of the worst ones haven’t made it on to the site (I’d quite like these people to still be talking to me after this trip), but there is a good selection available for viewing anyway!

Day two mainly involved shopping, buying new outfits, wearing them, and having a few glasses of vino with some very good steak.

More shows tomorrow and for the rest of the week. The lovely Tania departs tomorrow, heading for her 6 week trip to Brazil. We’re all going to miss her very much and they’ll be a big send off at the station no doubt – and then a sorrow drowning visit to the whiskey distillery!

More soon.

Saturday, August 12, 2006

Day 1 in the Edinburgh Madness 2006TM

We’re here. We’ve arrived. Poor old Edinburgh.

Following Chris and Jen's wedding yesterday, I was feeling slightly jaded for the train journey, but then I think we all were with a 6am start, on a Saturday… ugg. But, it’s most certainly worth it because we were in to the flat and settled into the first show (the excellent Gamarjobat – good, but perhaps not with as much energy as when we’ve seen them in previous years) by 5pm. And then there were beers, of course.

Lots and lots of photos will be appearing here in the course of the week, probably broken down into days – 116 taken on the first day already. It’s been a good day. We’re in excellent halls (we were meant to have been in these ones last year, but they got (most inconsiderately) vandalised just before we were due to arrive. We had good halls instead, but they were a very long way away, and they involved crossing the ‘Pee Meadows’ (meadows which always made us need to pee)) and we’re very close to all the main venues and the Royal Mile, and very near the best ‘take away fried stuff’ shop in Edinburgh – resulting in deep fried haggis and chips for dinner. Scrummy.

I’m beginning to relax… this is the first break I’ve had of 6 days off work since Edinburgh last August (and that didn’t really constitute a rest because of the show) and it’s all feeling a bit weird. Now that I’ve relaxed, it’s great, but it’s all a bit alien, actually having time on my hands to relax. I reckon by Monday I’ll be sorted – the four days off work effect will kick in and I’ll be well away!

Wednesday, August 09, 2006

Calm bliss... or is it

Again, a long gap between postings. So this may be a long posting. Rather a lot has happened since the last post, as usual.

Pete, Helen, John and I had a rather good meal at Locanda Locatelli. The food was amazing, really good and really well done. We had a lovely time. Then, there was Naomi's birthday do at Mokoko in St Albans. Na and I originally had a plan to work our way down one side of the cocktail menu, totalling ten cocktails (missing out two we don't like). However, we went slightly off plan and got stuck on rather a lot of Porn Star Martinis. Somehow, we didn't have hangovers the next day, and after a bit of a transport mission, we were on the road to Yeovil at a reasonable time. We got stuck in a reasonable amount of traffic, but managed to pull off a mastermind piece of navagating to avoid Stonehenge, without a map. See, girls can navigate boys.

We had a fantastic weekend, starting with an amazing meal at Little Barwick House and finished off with a visit to the beach at Lyme Regis and then a BBQ. Fab.

Now that I have more time on my hands and can leave work at a reasonable time, I'm finding it a bit odd. I'd slept rather a lot this past week, which is unusual. It's almost as though my body is like "oh, so we get to sleep now. Oh good. Let's do that at every possible moment then"... in the car, during films, on the DLR... too much perhaps, I'm feeling a bit spaced. Kind of have that idea that I shouldn't completely grind to a halt, because then I might get ill, and that's the last thing I (or anyone else for that matter) wants before we go to Edinburgh next week. In fact, I think I should just shut up and enjoy the quiet time whilst it's here, because in the next six weeks I'm going to be here, there and everywhere!

The first stage is Edinburgh though, and I'm very much looking forward to it. For a series of boring reasons, I'll be taking the laptop with me. Pete and I have promised that we will blog (he's going to be a guest blogger) and upload photos as we go along so that Na and Steve, who aren't coming, sob sob sob, will be able to keep up to date with our antics. So, expect some late night drunken blog entries (although they may not actually appear late at night, because we'll have to search out some internet access in a famous coffee establishment I think!)

Oh, and just because I really rather like it, here's a rather nice photo:

Tuesday, August 01, 2006

Paris - the account

So. A fantastic time was had. We saw lots, ate lots, and drank lots. John was a wonderful tour guide, allowing just the right amount of time in each place, not rushing too much, and being really flexible. I also managed (and this may surprise some of you) to be completely the follower all weekend. See, see, I can do it when I want to (although that's what I did in Rome, and that nearly ended in tears because as I wasn't taking responsibility for anything, I then got very drunk! Thankfully that didn't happen in Paris!)

We got the Eurostar from Waterloo on Friday evening (I even managed to leave work on time!) and arrived in Paris about 10.30. We were both tired, so no exploring was done on the Friday night, but the hotel was in a fab location, and had air conditioning (although it left a little to be desired, it succeeded in making sure the room wasn't hot, but didn't actually manage to make it cool). After possibly the best sleep I've had in weeks, we were up and about in time for breakfast on Saturday and then into the Briden Paris TourTM. First, Foulcault's Pendulum in the Pantheon. John did try to get me to understand how it works, but I just don't. I also want to know why there's a black marble cat next to it. Then, it was on to the Ile de la Cite, in an attempt to get the best ice cream in Paris, which was foiled by the fact that the shop had closed for August - on the 29 July. Go figure... but we still had ice cream. Then we strolled past Notre Dame, and on to Saint Chapelle and the Palais du Justice. The glass in Saint Chapelle is real take-your-breath away stuff, and we spent a fair bit of time in there trying to work out the stories in each panel.

After that, we went back across the river to the Louvre. We did the 'top three' things, including the Mona Lisa (tiny, dirty, and massive crowds. The most impressive bit for me though I think was the ancient bits in the basement which were discovered when they were excavating for the creation of the pyramid.

We then went and had a rather nice steak, frites and beer lunch, and then wandered through the gardens by the Louvre to see Monet's Waterlillies in the recently re-opened Orangerie. I didn't take any photos in there, I didn't think I could do the paintings justice. John and I hatched a plan in pondering how much it would cost to have exclusive access for 20 minutes - the paintings are amazing, but I can't help but think how striking they would be without any one in there, in peace, without lots of tourists and flashing cameras.

After that, it was off to Napoleon's Tomb. Sightseeing'd out, we then retired to various bars, including rather famous one. More beers, and a very nice meal later, and our first day was complete.

Sunday bought a more relaxed day, a stroll around the Marais and Place des Vosges, and brunch. And then rain, lots and lots of rain. Which required doing what the natives do - getting more coffee, staying in the cafe, reading our books, and waiting for the rain to fade away. Which it duly did, and then before we knew it, we were speeding through the French countryside en route home (not so speedy through the Kent countryside, it's not high speed yet!)

All in all, it was a fantastic, restful and most enjoyable weekend. Thank you John. Venice next?

Pay back time

Today, I got to work at 10.30, had an hour and a half for lunch, and left at 5. Fantastic. Pay back time has started - some time to invest in me for a change, to sit back and take things easy and enjoy the summer. And get some of that stuff done that I've been putting off for months.

Oh, and to write a nice long account of Paris, which I'm working on now, and to blog a bit more, and to read, hopefully a lot more. Happy days...

Sunday, July 30, 2006

Paris

Just got back from Paris. I want to put up a nice long post all about it, but John has the guidebook, and as my French is rubbish, I need it to make sure I get all the names right. And, I haven't sorted the photos yet either, and the trip deserves some illustration.

So, for now, I've fixed the bold thing on the '150 post' below for your perusal. And a much longer post on Paris will follow soon. And I'm hoping that it will be soon - things should calm down at work in August (can't believe we're in August already!) and I should therefore have a bit more time on my hands. Talking of which, I'm going to go and read my book in the bath - a rare Sunday night luxury!

Wednesday, July 26, 2006

OK...

So then, my technical ineptitude was such that I couldn't get the bold formatting to work. Tonight, my drunk ineptitude is such that I can't correct it. But I can assure you that I have done some of that stuff. Details in bold will follow. No, honest, they will. They really really will

Monday, July 24, 2006

150 things

As I'm struggling to find the time/insipration/inclination to be writing long posts about me on here, I thought I'd cheat a bit instead! I borrowed this from Jo (who won't be any wiser as to how I found her site since the last time I borrowed something from there, because I'm not!). The idea is that you bold the ones you've done, and then add them up...

01. Bought everyone in the bar a drink
02. Swam with wild dolphins
03. Climbed a mountain
04. Taken a Ferrari for a test drive
05. Been inside the Great Pyramid
06. Held a tarantula
07. Taken a candlelit bath with someone
08. Said ‘I love you’ and meant it
09. Hugged a tree
10. Bungee jumped
11. Visited Paris
12. Watched a lightning storm at sea
13. Stayed up all night long and saw the sun rise
14. Seen the Northern Lights
15. Gone to a huge sports game
16. Walked the stairs to the top of the leaning Tower of Pisa
17. Grown and eaten your own vegetables
18. Touched an iceberg
19. Slept under the stars
20. Changed a baby’s diaper
21. Taken a trip on a hot air balloon
22. Watched a meteor shower
23. Got drunk on champagne
24. Given more than you can afford to charity
25. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
26. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment
27. Had a food fight
28. Bet on a winning horse
29. Asked out a stranger
30. Had a snowball fight
31. Screamed as loudly as you possibly can
32. Held a lamb
33. Seen a total eclipse
34. Ridden a roller coaster
35. Hit a home run
36. Danced like a fool and not cared who was looking
37. Adopted an accent for an entire day
38. Actually felt happy about your life, even for just a moment
39. Had two hard drives for your computer
40. Visited all 50 states (but really really want to… maybe that’ll be a New Year’s resolution sometime!)
41. Taken care of someone who was shit faced
42. Had amazing friends (Not had, do)
43. Danced with a stranger in a foreign country
44. Watched wild whales
45. Stolen a sign
46. Backpacked in Europe
47. Taken a road-trip
48. Gone rock climbing
49. Midnight walk on the beach
50. Gone sky diving
51. Visited Ireland
52. Been heartbroken for longer than when you were in love
53. In a restaurant, sat at a stranger’s table and had a meal with them
54. Visited Japan
55. Milked a cow
56. Alphabetized your cds
57. Pretended to be a superhero
58. Sung karaoke
59. Lounged around in bed all day
60. Posed nude in front of strangers
61. Gone scuba diving
62. Kissed in the rain
63. Played in the mud
64. Played in the rain
65. Gone to a drive-in theater
66. Visited the Great Wall of China
67. Started a business
68. Fallen in love and not had your heart broken
69. Toured ancient sites
70. Taken a martial arts class
71. Played D&D for more than 6 hours straight
72. Gotten married
73. Been in a movie
74. Crashed a party
75. Gotten divorced
76. Gone without food for 5 days
77. Made cookies from scratch
78. Won first prize in a costume contest
79. Ridden a gondola in Venice
80. Gotten a tattoo
81. Rafted the Snake River
82. Been on television news programs as an “expert”
83. Got flowers for no reason
84. Performed on stage
85. Been to Las Vegas
86. Recorded music
87. Eaten shark
88. Had a one-night stand
89. Gone to Thailand
90. Bought a house
91. Been in a combat zone
92. Buried one/both of your parents
93. Been on a cruise ship
94. Spoken more than one language fluently
95. Performed in Rocky Horror
96. Raised children
97. Followed your favorite band/singer on tour
98. Created and named your own constellation of stars
99. Taken an exotic bicycle tour in a foreign country
100. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over
101. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
102. Sang loudly in the car, and didn’t stop when you knew someone was looking
103. Had plastic surgery
104. Survived an accident that you shouldn’t have survived.
105. Wrote articles for a large publication
106. Lost over 100 pounds
107. Held someone while they were having a flashback
108. Piloted an airplane
109. Petted a stingray
110. Broken someone’s heart
111. Helped an animal give birth
112. Won money on a T.V. game show
113. Broken a bone
114. Gone on an African photo safari
115. Had a body part of yours below the neck pierced
116. Fired a rifle, shotgun, or pistol
117. Eaten mushrooms that were gathered in the wild
118. Ridden a horse
119. Had major surgery
120. Had a snake as a pet
121. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
122. Slept for more than 30 hours over the course of 48 hours
123. Visited more foreign countries than U.S. states
124. Visited all 7 continents
125. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
126. Eaten kangaroo meat
127. Eaten sushi
128. Had your picture in the newspaper
129. Changed someone’s mind about something you care deeply about
130. Gone back to school
131. Parasailed
132. Petted a cockroach
133. Eaten fried green tomatoes
134. Read The Iliad - and the Odyssey
135. Selected one “important” author who you missed in school, and read
136. Killed and prepared an animal for eating
137. Skipped all your school reunions
138. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language
139. Been elected to public office (I think an SU counts)
140. Written your own computer language
141. Thought to yourself that you’re living your dream
142. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
143. Built your own PC from parts
144. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn’t know you
145. Had a booth at a street fair
146: Dyed your hair
147. Been a DJ
148: Shaved your head
149: Caused a car accident
150: Saved someone’s life

Update Steve and Marty have done this too. Steve has done 67, Marty 61. John has done 96. I've done 71. Mum?

Sunday, July 23, 2006

Hot

So, again, a long time between posts. I think this is partly because I've had a really busy patch, and partly because as I've been spending rather a lot of time in the company of John, he's getting my ramblings instead!

So, again, a lot has happened between posts - the highlight being Jenna and Mark's wedding (photos in the usual place), which was just fab. It was great to be in Jersey again too, especially as my mum retired this weekend... but she'll have plenty to occupy her, working out what the spies are up to! Congratulations Mum!

I can't believe that it's nearly the end of July. I've totally lost track of where the past few months have gone, but they have been, on the whole, great. August will bring many exciting things... and hopefully some substantial rest.

Yay.

More later... hopefully. I'm aiming for a proper update for you (all?!) at the beginning of August once things calm down!

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

Umm

So. It's been a long time since my last post. Possibly an unprecedented gap between posts since I started this blog (although I've not actually been back to check.)

A whole massive amount has happened since I last posted: A rather nice dinner at La Gavroche; a rather odd weekend helping a friend moving house; a rather lovely but odd Sunday dinner; Pirates of the Caribbean II at (quite frankly the best in London) the Electric Cinema; a rather odd but good play; and a shopping in Covent Garden; a two hour stint in a dress shop in Watford in the Saurday heat; a massive birthday celebration for Pete and Helen (photos in the usual place (although not titled, Flickr wasn't playing ball, and I was too hot and bothered to do anything about it! Soon though, there will be (hopefully humerous) titles; a rather nice hotel with a fantastic shower and bath; a birthday barbie for Rish; and then a rather strange dinner in culmination of the effort on a project on which I have been working since seeing being appointed nearly three years ago.

There's so much to say. Suffice to say for now that the said 'new influence' is rather a good influence. And I very much like spending time with you. He makes an experienced point of view into a conversation and stimulates me. I like that.

Saturday, July 08, 2006

7/7

Many many many people have, I'm sure, blogged about the events which occurred one year ago today, from London, the UK, and no doubt across the world. I can't possibly compete or do justice to the poignancy and emotion conveyed in many of those posts, especially those from the direct survivors of the attacks.

My take on it is this: at this point last year, I was embroiled in some complicated situations. The beginning of July has specific memories for me, for what are in comparison insignificant personal reasons (although one them was my bro graduating, good).

On 7/7 2005, I was scared. But quickly, I became proud of being a Londoner. Proud of the way that everyone pulled together. Proud that only hours before we'd been awarded the 2012 Olympics.

Today proved that London can bounce back, albeit with increased security on display today. As we respected the 2 minute silence at work, the magnitude of the events again struck home (although some idiot rang during that time, duh!). We're strong things, us humans.

Monday, July 03, 2006

Food Frustration

Today I have food frustration. I left work really wanting fresh tuna and salad = there was no tuna in the shop, and the salad I have in the fridge is frozen. So I had salmon and asparagus pie instead = but no salad, and no frozen veg in the freezer apart from old sweetcorn = not nice.

And then, just when a nice glass of wine had re-balanced the karma, I thought I'd treat myself to the rather nice looking passionfruit creme brulee from Fru... = great, until I dropped it getting it out from under the grill and spilt it everywhere, salvaging just enough to make me realise what I was missing.

Great. Perhaps someone is trying to tell me something - perhaps I've neglected my cooking skills so much that I should just give up and eat out or get take away all the time instead!!

Anyway, I've returned from a second weekend in Jersey in a row - this time it was Jenna's hen night = photos are in the usual place. A good time was had by all, and we're now very much looking forward to the wedding!

I've also sorted out my bookshelf tonight, in an attempt to ease some of the food frustration... and it's made me realise how many books I have sitting there to read!

But, top of the list at the moment is my new Rouge Guide to Paris... where I'm very much looking forward to going at the end of July. Counting the days...!

Monday, June 26, 2006

ITEX... we survived!

Well. I've just got home from the 'ITEX weekend' in Jersey. 11 mad friends, two chaotic houses, one very very long walk, a lot of Love Bars, peanut butter sandwiches and packets of crisps, and a few bottles of beer and cider thrown in - makes for a mad, tiring, but rewarding weekend. A good time was had by all, I think (as the organiser, it's always a bit difficult to get a perspective on how things have actually gone, but I think it was all ok!).

Massive thanks go to my parents, Kelly, and Amy for putting up with the chaos and being excellent hosts. I hope tranquility has returned to your houses tonight and that we've not left anything behind or forgotten to do anything!

The walk was certainly a challenge, but we all did amazingly. Richelle and Naomi were an excellent support crew, picking us up when we dropped and getting to the later check points ahead of us to encourage us and point us in the right direction. With varying degrees of pain and injury, we managed the following:

Sally - 17 miles
Tania - 20 miles
Me and Steve D - 26.2 miles
Marty - 30 miles
Steve B and Rich - 32 miles
Helen - 35 miles
Pete - 48.1 miles

Yes, Pete did the full distance! Massive congratulations to him, and to everyone else - I think we all went further than we thought we could, and it amounts to fantastic personal achievements all round.

There are some photos in the usual place, but Rich has more (and better) which will probably appear here at some point over the next few days.

The walk also sees me having completed one of my New Years resolutions - so that's one down, and 8 to go. I had a number of fantastic birthday presents last week, but by far the most inspired and thoughtful was a collection of gifts from Na, Steve, Helen and Pete, themed on my resolutions (a Love Bar for the walk, The Godfather to read, An Affair to Remember to watch, a sleep mask, an Italian DVD, a wooden bracelet for luck on not falling over, a toy saxophone, a map of Bali, and the London by London book). Fantastic!

I am however left with some general aches, and a slightly more concerning pain in my right knee... having already damaged the ligaments in my left knee (now mostly healed) and torn the cartiledge in the now infamous frisbee incident last year, I was a bit worried about how that knee would fare on the walk - very well it seems, because that knee feels fine now. The right knee however, not so - it hurts, it much the same way as the ligament pain did in the other knee. I'm really hoping that there won't be any lasting damage and that the pain will ease off.

So, Pete, Helen, Steve, Sally, Naomi, Steve, Tania, Rich, Marty and Richelle: Same place, same time, next year...?!? ;-)

Sunday, June 18, 2006

New

So, as predicted, a slow blogging week, again. My impetus for this has dwindled a bit. That's partly because I've been really busy, and this has not been a good week at work. It's also because I'm being distracted by a rather nice new influence in my life. I'm not ready to reveal all yet, but it's sure having an impact on me, and I'm looking forward to seeing what happens.

In the meantime, for a week which includes my birthday, the forthcoming week is looking all a bit stressful!! Too much going on at work, which is adding to the stress, and then the Walk of Doom, as Steve has finally dawned on us... oh dear. I have blisters from wearing nice but painful shoes to the UHSU Ball on Friday (pictures in the usual place) - and having blisters at the beginning of a walk which is blatantly going to give me blisters is not a happy state of affairs!

Still, when I've had a go at it, at least I'll have done one of my New Years Resolutions!

Monday, June 12, 2006

Blurgh

Another sparse blogging week... and this post is not going to be a long one. Words fail me - I just can't anything down! It's been a mad and intense week, and I'm just not sure that I know how I feel about all sorts of things that have happened.

One think I do know though is that the Bon Jovi gig tonight was totally fab, so that's all good.

More later, when I have a bit more ability to work out which letters should go in front of others to form words for constructive sentences - and then I'll be making a bit more sense!

Sunday, June 04, 2006

The big one

Well, it's been an unusually long time since my last post... probably because I've really not spent a great deal of time in front of the computer for various reasons (well, not this one anyway, the work one, yes) including this.

I said in my last post that life is a rollercoaster.... well, it sure is. At the moment I feel like I'm on this one currently the record holder for the faster coaster in the world. Things are constantly changing all around me, and I'm finding it a little hard to keep up. On the whole, things are exciting, stimulating and... uh, interesting. I'm feeling slightly dazed and confused, but I just need to get stuck in and get on with it.

This week has been what is supposed to be a rest week at work - a time to catch up on all the things we never have time to do usually. The only problem is, I've not really done that, because the quiet time bought out my rebellious streak, and I spent a lot of time enjoying short days and reasonable lunches... which is why I now find myself at the end of a three hour stint of work on a Sunday, with more to go before I'm ready for tomorrow. I am at least very much enjoying sitting in the garden in the sun working, rather than being stuck inside - thank god for wireless internet, again! - although the laptop is getting sunstroke...!

The show was fantastic - and very funny. It is a credit to all involved in Act2 that such a show can be pulled together without too much stress, and with a hefty dose of fun and humour along the way. I very much enjoyed mucking in with the crew and being 'one of the boys' on the production side of this one. I'm also going to take this opportunity to say that I think Marty did a fantastic job on his directorial debut - your influence on the play, and the actors, really shone through, and it is a great credit to you - so shut your noise and take the complements!

Also since my last post, I went to the England vs Barbarians rugby match at Twickenham - it was a fab match and a great day out - and then on Bank Holiday Monday I did some things I really enjoy and haven't done for ages - wandering around London, having a Harrods picnic in Hyde Park, going to a pub quiz (albeit that we weren't very good), and did some other stuff. Great. Exactly the kind of stuff I should do more often.

Thursday, May 25, 2006

Life is a rollercoaster...

just gotta ride it.

Having excelled myself with my previous long post, full of information, updates and innuendo, I've exhausted my blogging insipiration for a while I think.

All sorts of complicated things going on, most of which not directly involving me, but seeing people turn to me for support - which is a nice position to be in in a way - I'm always happy to be a listening ear and be dispensing some (probably useless) advice. I can only hope that it does some good somewhere along the way...

Saturday, May 20, 2006

Resolution Review

In January, I posted what amounted to 9 New Year's resolutions.

They were:

1. Learn to play the sax
2. Learn to speak Italian again
3. Watch more films
4. Try to get less injuries
5. Make a good attempt at the ITEX walk
6. Do as much travelling as possible
7. Get more sleep
8. Spend more time exploring London
9. Complete the BBC Big Read Top 100 book list (which I've already been attempting for the past two years, I'm 45 books in!)

Although it'’s not half way through the year yet, which would be the logical time to do this (but hey, I can'’t be logical in all aspects of my life!), it has occurred to me to review how I'm getting on with them. So, as at Saturday 20 May, roughly a bit more than a third of the way through the year, here is my progress report on each resolution so far:

1. Learn to play the sax

No action at all. Rubbish. Need to hire one to give it a try

2.Learn to speak Italian again

Also no action at all. Maybe I need to do what The Stig does when tearing cars round the Top Gear race track and listen to language tapes in the car

3. Watch more films

This one is actually going ok - see the list on the right hand side. The long plane journeys to Vegas, Marty and Richelle's crusade to improve my film knowledge, and the Naomi-originated film nights have helped!

4. Try to get less injuries

This one has actually been successful too - touch all the wood in the world! So far this year I've not had any major injuries, so far as I can remember, but do comment and correct me if you think I'm wrong! My knee is still playing up from the stupid frisbee injury (see a post about the beginning of September), especially today (see below) so that'll keep me in the feeb club for a while!

5. Make a good attempt at the ITEX walk

Well. There has been training going on, so that's got to be a good start! At the moment I'’m thinking that a realistic target for my '‘good attempt'’ would be halfway - 24 miles. That would still be a major achievement, so I'’d be happy with that. It's only 5 weeks away now!! Today Helen, Pete and I completed 17 miles (in just under 6 hours) and, apart from my stupid knee, not much hurts at the moment, so that's all good. Tomorrow I'll no doubt be suffering, but at the moment I feel ok, and that gives me confidence that I'll be able to make a decent attempt at the ITEX... might need a bit more training first though, and not sure where that's going to fit in!

6. Do as much traveling as possible

This one is panning out ok too. I've been to Edinburgh/ Glasgow, Las Vegas, and Aberdeen so far. I'’ve got 5 trips to Jersey, a trip to Edinburgh, a trip to Singapore, Bali and Lombok, and a trip to Canada booked. Plus a potential trip to New York and a possible trip to somewhere in Eastern Europe. And New Zealand, Fiji and San Francisco for Christmas and New Year. So I reckon I'll be able to give this one a great big tick at the end of the year!

7. Get more sleep

Hmpf. Might be better to skip this one. Given I'’ve had only 1 night where I've had more than 7 hours sleep since I got back from Vegas, I'm clearly failing miserably. If only the body and mind could actually function perfectly on four hours of sleep a night, I'’d be a happy bunny.

8. Spend more time exploring London

Really need to pay more attention to this one. I've managed to visit more restaurants and bars, but that isn't really what I had in mind when I made the resolution. I've got some exploring planned for the forthcoming bank holiday, so that will be a good start.

9. Complete the BBC Big Read Top 100 book list (which I've already been attempting for the past two years, I'm 45 books in!)

Ho hum. So this one isn't going too well either - I've not got my up to date list here, so I'm not sure what the actual numbers are, but I have a feeling that I'm up to 52 - so not much of an increase since January! I have lots of books ready to be read, but am seriously lacking in the time to read them.

Not too bad. A further review will follow some time in the next couple of months when I get a similar sort of urge to do it - but an update on the Itex walk will follow in advance of that, as it's on 23 June.

In the meantime, I'm very much enjoying being at home on a Saturday night. I can't remember the last time I was - and I've not woken up in my own bed on a Sunday morning for 8 weeks... that sounds deliberately debauched, just for my mum! I just hope I can sleep for a substantial period of time... I'm all set, clean sheets, clean pj's, just had a bath, nice dinner and a glass of wine, plenty of exercise today... let's see what happens!

I love having the occasional night like this where I can potter round the house and not do much - and I've just had a lovely dinner (tuna, Jersey potatoes (Yay!) and roast tomatoes). Such nights remind me of Saturday nights at Uni, when everyone used to go home and leave me to my own devices. It could have been lonely, but it wasn't, because I relished having the time completely to myself, being able to do exactly what I wanted to do, and having some peace to catch up with myself.

That's exactly what I'm doing tonight - it's 'Kate time' - and it's important. I'm alone, but I'm not lonely. Such nights add balance (and much needed rest!) and I can't help but think that I need to have them more often. The trouble with that is that it would mean compromising on other things, which I don't want to do. Ho hum. Time for some dessert to help me solve that conundrum...

Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Champagne

Tonight I have had a fantastic night with Helen, Pete and Steve, welcoming Steve into London life. We went here and here. At the former, we had dinner next to Andrew Lloyd Webber. At the latter... notice the date of the relaunch on the link. We happened in there and found out that they were intending to be closed, but because they finished the refurbishment early, they were open, so we were one of the first to experience the new surroundings (we went there a few months ago, and the decor has changed a fair bit). But, to be honest, it's not really about the decor - it's about the view.

28 floors up, and a nearly 360 degree view of London. Amazing. Awe inspiring, and 'happy and proud to be in London' thought provoking.

And to leave you with a quote we stumbled across in the drink menu on champagne:

I drink it when I'm happy, and when I'm sad. Sometimes I drink it when I'm alone. When I have company I consider it obligatory. I trifle with it if I'm not hungry, and I drink it when I am. Otherwise I never touch it... unless I'm thirsty.


Update: Very touching post about the evening from Steve here

Monday, May 15, 2006

Damn we're grown up

For the second time in as many weeks, I'm getting some inspiration for a post from Steve's blog (and stealing the wording of the title too). This is not good, it's got to stop. But, in the meantime, it kind of illustrates the point of this post...

Because we are grown up, in more ways than one. The title is prompted by Steve's comment on his blog describing me and accompanying a photo of me (a particularly horrendous photo, but he will be correcting that on threat of death - won't you Steve?!?) in a post about his birthday celebrations on Friday - which were really good. And mean he's a year older, so he is grown up in that sense, but he actually means something slightly different.

It's taken Steve and I a lot of time and effort to get to the stage of friendship and understanding which we enjoy now. When we spilt up (for he is my ex, just in case you don't know that) we were forced to deal with everything pretty quickly for a variety of reasons, and I firmly believe that forced us into establishing a strong and determined friendship. Had we not had that push, I'm not sure what would have happened. Maybe we would have worked things out to the stage they are at now anyway, but it would probably have been a whole lot harder and more complicated.

I'm very proud of us. We've built a strong and supportive friendship, although a lot of people don't understand how we have. I'm not sure I do all the time either, but I don't really care to analyse it too much, because it works, and that's what's important.

I've had another experience recently where I've had to draw on that kind of strength. I've learnt the true value of being open and honest with each other, of being realistic about your own strengths and weaknesses, and most importantly I've learnt that a sensible approach to things can ensure that people don't get hurt. Oh, and I've learnt the value of rhythm too.

Strong and lasting friendships are built on the basis of being sensible, honest and grown up.

Pictures from the weekend and various other recent things are in the usual place: here.

Friday, May 05, 2006

My 100th post

It might be a long one, it might not. The words in my head have not been forming themselves into bloggable sentences for some time now, hence the short and punchy postings.

When I started this blog back in August, I wasn’t really sure how long I’d keep it up, especially when, although I could access it for a while, my access from work was blocked. That was probably a very good thing, because it means that I can’t come on Blogger and unleash my frustration in the middle of the day. But it also means that I can only blog in the evenings and at the weekends – and this has the effect that the majority of my postings are affected by alcohol. I’m assured by those who are bearing with me and are still reading (although there's not been any comments for a while, so they may not still be with me!) that this makes my blog interesting to read, especially when they know I’ve been on a night out and can log on in the morning and see what I’ve been rambling in the small drunk hours of the morning.

I might also therefore be giving the impression that I drink a lot. On balance, I certainly drink more now than I did a few years ago. But my circumstances are completely different – I have a different job, different flat, different friends and a different relationship situation. This has an impact. My job falls into the ‘work hard play hard’ category, and if I couldn’t sustain a fulfilling social life, I don’t think I’d be able to manage the work. I need to get out and do normal things with friends in the evenings and weekends to add some perspective to my life. There are often massive contrasts, such as a few weeks ago when I was at a black tie dinner with some big big big wigs on a Monday night, and the Act2 gang were at karaoke at a formerly dodgy pub in our student town. Weird – but good.

I love that kind of contrast, and I also love my job. I think however that the time is nearly here for me to have a month off the booze. I did that last year, and the year before that, and it made a big difference. Trouble is, when I’ve done it before, it’s been in the winter, and it seems easier then somehow – now that we’re into May, the evenings are lighter, beer gardens are open, there are BBQ’s, and we’re into ‘birthday season’. Maybe I should aim to do what I vowed in Vegas instead (whilst battling a grade 10 hangover) – never to drink so much that I get a hangover.

The slight problem with that is that my hangovers are a bit unpredictable – I can get a shocker from three and a half pints of beer one time, and then the next time I’m completely fine. So I’m not sure that’s going to work either… but I really should pay attention to being a bit more sensible.

So, summer is here. I love summer. I’m very much more a summer person than a winter person. As I sit here on the balcony at 9pm, the sun is setting over the city, I’m having a glass of wine (oopss; see above!) and thinking that the feeling I had at the BBQ on Wednesday that good times and things are ahead is still here. I like it. On the whole, I love my life. I’m in a happy place, and I like it.

I’ve also done one of my favorite things tonight – cooked myself dinner. That might sound like a run of the mill chore-like thing to do to some, but actually I love cooking, and find it very relaxing. Trouble is, it’s not really very compatible with the aforementioned work-hard-play-hard lifestyle, and I don't therefore get to do it very much, and it's great when I do. Most people take eating at home for granted. Another one of those contrasts eh…

Those contrasts which are part of my life, and they add to it – I embrace them and make the most of them.

So, a long post. A varied post. The 100th post. I’m not sure that I’ve done that significant landmark in my blogging history justice, but at least there are coherent sentences, and not too much alcohol influence.

Onwards, to the weekend. Looking forward to it, and it should be comparatively relaxing compared to the past few. Perhaps apart from the 18 mile walk on Sunday – eek!

Thursday, May 04, 2006

Number 99

There are (finally) Vegas pictures here.

There are also no sensible words forming themselves into sentences in my head, so this will be a short post.

Steve has posted about last night - it was really a very good night, and I too have a feeling that it marked the beginning of something good.

The next post will be my 100th, so I'm going to save my effort for that!

Monday, May 01, 2006

Exhausted, but happy

So much has happened this week that I just can't condense it into anything sensible, not least because I'm totally exhausted and I ache all over.

It's been an eventful week, finished off with a fantastic weekend... and I'll leave it there for now.

Pictures from Andy and Lyndsay's wedding, which was just perfect, and very special, are in the usual place.

Pictures from Vegas should be there on Wednesday once I have Helen's and we therefore have a full set.

Sleep for me now, much needed!!

Monday, April 24, 2006

So much I could say...

There's so much I could say about tonight, but I can't. Work confidentiality and all that, don't want to get Dooced!

Also, Blogger wasn't working when I logged on, so most of the drunkeness which would normally be here, is actually here on t the messageboard. Hee hee.

Sunday, April 23, 2006

Run Pete Run

Collapsed on the sofa feeling guilty. Spent today watching Pete run the London Marathon, which he did spectacularly well, despite the rain. Apart from now I'm really tired, which is rubbish, because all we did was wander round London a bit, he ran 26 and a bit miles, so I have no justification for being cream crackered!

Anyway, I've had a lovely weekend hanging out with the boys (mainly, joined by Tania and Helen and Pete's family for some welcome female company). Thank you boys. I'm enjoying a rest from the testosterone now though!

So, on to facing the week ahead... having just bought an EXTREMELY expensive dress for a black tie dinner tomorrow, I'm hoping that that will make me feel good for the start of a week about which I am feeling very apprehensive for all sorts of different (and kind of complicated) reasons.

Still, I have a wedding to look forward to, in Aberdeen, on Saturday. It's going to be great, a gang of my old Uni housemates back together again. So very much looking forward to that. Just got to get through the week first...!

(PS photos from Vegas still being prepared and exchanged between us girlies... more soon)

Wednesday, April 19, 2006

Viva Las Vegas

Well, it's Wednesday. I'm back. I have a touch of jetlag, a large dose of the post holiday blues, and the very slightest hint of a tan.

I was due to report back two decisions and some photos. To take the easiest first - there are photos, lots of them, but it's going to take some time to sort them out. Also, Na, Helen and I will be compiling all our photos in to one set for here. So, they'll be there in a few days. There are a couple at the bottom of this post to whet your appetite though...

As to the decisions: Na, Helen and the cocktails were helpful. I've decided that on the professional one, my philosophy is 'you've got to be in it to win it', so I'm going to chuck in an application and see what happens. That might be slightly easier said than done given the deadline is the 30th April, but we'll see. A concentrated effort at the weekend and some point next week should do it.

On the personal one, well, that's perhaps not so straightforward, but the philosophy is probably the same. One of the (many) films I watched on the plane(s) had a great line in it: "Who cares if you get in a mess in your life. At least you know you're living it then."

The photos:







Tuesday, April 11, 2006

Decisions, decisions

So. Work is slightly better, if only because it's the end of term, and of course because Vegas is 35 hours or something away. Thank God. I can't wait. It really has been a hell of a couple of months, and I'm very much in need of a rest, mainly from work, but generally too. And Vegas seems to offer the best solution - pool and spa time by day, and then food, drink and partying by night. Wicked.

I'm also planning to give myself some 'clear thinking' time... time away from work, people, all sorts of other things. I need to make two decisions. The first is related to work, it's a professional decision about whether to continue pursuing something I've been trying for for a long time, or whether to give it up and stick with what I'm doing now, and am apparently good at. A difficult choice, and a major decision to take. It will affect the rest of my career for the rest of my life. I've always been career motivated and ambitious, so it's a major life decision, it's not just about 'work'.

The second is related to me, it's a personal decision about whether to take the plunge and attempt to resolve something which has been bugging me for a long time. It might have a major effect on me, but if it all goes wrong, I'd hope that it would be solvable and I could move on just fine.

Hmph. I think that all of this is going to be very much aided by a number of tasty (but probably expensive) cocktails and a bit of girly bonding time.

Photos will no doubt result from the trip too, there's not been any for a while. Not sure why that is.

So, check back here next Wednesday for (a) two decisions and (b) photos

Wednesday, April 05, 2006

Getting stronger

I've had an utterly horrible few days at work, but things are improving. I can honestly say that I was more angry (that deep down, burning incessant but somehow calm anger) than I have ever been on Monday. I had to isolate myself and not talk to anyone for a good few hours, and then my poor Mum took the brunt of it (thanks Mum ;-) and thanks also to those who took my MSN ranting!). I've calmed down now, and all is well, but I won't forget how I was made to feel. All becuase of one man... I can only go so far in describing things on here, but some of you know what I mean and the situation to which I am referring (and those who don't can be explained too off line).

But, the bottom line is that I'm bigger and stronger than that. He'll fall on his sword eventually! I honestly believe that such experiences can only make you stronger. My boss said to me on Tuesday that she couldn't understand how I'd survived without losing my temper. And I'm not sure that I can either. But then there have been a few situations in my recent-ish past where I've felt like that. I'm not sure how it's ok, but it is. I've made it. I'm a strong and resilient person. I'm willing to learn from my mistakes and reflect on the situations in which I have become involved and then move on.

Steve's blog struck a chord with me today - his title is "Somedays I love being me". And, well, I'm going to steal that philosophy. Somedays I love being me. When I was standing on the balcony about ten minutes ago, drinking a(n unnecessary extra) glass of wine, looking at the stars, and absorbing the natural calm of the river, I thought, yeah, I love being me. And not only that, I'm proud of me.

It's not often that I'm proud of me. I'm a self critical kind of person (although I'm aware I might not always come across like that) but just sometimes I give myself reason to be proud. And I think I have this week. And I'm going to carry that with me. It makes me stronger.

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Gazing

I've been sitting here gazing at the screen for some time now. An awful lot has happened since I last blogged, some good, some bad, some indifferent. And I just can't work out a way to get it all onto paper (well, keyboard) and make sense of it all. So I'm not going to.

Suffice to say that I've had a great weekend doing normal things with normal people... well pehaps not so normal on balance, but I love them all the same! Thanks for entertaining me guys and girls xxx

Monday, March 27, 2006

one way street

Constantly heading up a one way street.
The flow is going the other way.
The prevailing sensible choice is going the other way.

But somehow you keep on going, against the tide. Hit it headlong and like a bull at a gate, and the force of everyone else will throw you back, like surf breakers on a beach.

Make your way, gently, slowly, building confidence as you go, bringing people on board gradually so that they understand what you want, and why you want it, and that, even if they can’t understand, they can see that you desire it so much that you’re going to carry on regardless. Eventually, you’ll get to the top. Won’t you?

The top, where it’s busier, the traffic is flowing in both directions, but despite that, there is a natural sense of harmony. Everything just feels right some how.

But, when you’re still on the one way street, there’s something missing. A glimpse of the light at the end of the tunnel, the much needed sense of tranquil calm and satisfaction which the top promises is enough to spur you on.

A hint, a touch, a kind word. It’s enough.

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

Wipe out

I am shattered... just finished my second 14+ hour day in a row, and I'm set for another one tomorrow too.

I'm counting down the days... 8 working days until it all changes, and therefore hopefully improves (although it's a shallow hope, I think it'll just be different rather than better)... and 22 days until Vegas. I've not quite gone to the extreme of working out the amount of working hours left to go yet, but give me time!

Saturday, March 18, 2006

Wireless

I'm beginning this post thinking it will be a long one, but let's see what happens...

I'm currently sitting on the sofa, drinking wine and watching West Wing. A regular Saturday night in then... albeit that I've not actually done this for longer than I can pin point to remember. My Saturday nights are usually spent in various places not involving being at home, so it's quite refreshing to be here. I feel like I'm catching up with myself. I was originally planning to spend this weekend seeking the assistance of Marty to wash, t-cut and polish my old car, ready for it to be sold, but he's visiting parents... so I've diverted to a favourite pastime... painting!!! We're having a red wall in the lounge, and a nice cream colour in the bathroom, probably with a Griffiths original painting on one wall.

I love painting and decorating. Sad huh... but, there's something very theraputic about spending a few hours making a radical transformation to something and then assessing the effect at the end of the day, and for however long it lasts into the future, until you decide to change it again! Whilst I would most love to be decorating my very own flat/house, I'm content for now to be helping Stephen out.

As I said, I'm currently in the lounge... very much enjoying my new laptop with the cool wireless technology. I've got this and my old desktop linked so that I can access everything from both... and I was even able to have MSN conversations from the bathroom earlier - whilst I was painting, rather than doing anything else!

It has, as usual, been a big, bad, mad week at work. But, I'm counting down the days, firstly to the end of March (10 working days), when everything changes, and secondly to the 13 April, when I, along with Na and Helen, will be Vegas bound! Can't wait. The high point from this week though was that my manager managed to get some feedback about me out of the big boss. Who, apparently, although I think this makes him certifiable, thinks I'm exceptional, performing astonishingly well, tackling difficult issues which no one has ever taken on before, and he can't think of anything negative at all.

I was quite literally gobsmacked and speechless, which as anyone who reads this knows (as does my manager), is a very rare thing. A pretty good way to end the week though, and a very good boost at a difficult time.

In celebration, I toasted Tim's birthday with a number of these. They are passionfruit beer, from a rather good Belgian bar called the Dovetail in Clerkenwell, which has the biggest range of Belgian beers in London, including the rather amazing passionfruit one in the picture. Had I not been totally knackered from the night before, many many more of those would have been consumed!

And, the final paragraph. My last post was rather emotional... and rather jumbled up and confused. I was also in danger of revealling rather more than would have been sensible about some of my inner most thoughts... and I remain very thankful today that I didn't.

Normal service is resumed.

Friday, March 17, 2006

Take a look at me now

You're the only one....

We've shared the laughter and the pain, we've shared the tears.

There's so much I need to say to you, so many reasons why.

Ahem.

Just spent a fab girly night in... with my male flatmate. Steak and chips and red wine for dinner, finished off with plenty of red wine, Baileys, and season 1 of Cold Feet. It's been emotional. He's split up with his girlfriend, and there was nothing for it but a good girly cure all session. He's gone to bed much happier, which leads me to conclude that girly treatment can work for boys too.

And, above all, it proves that girls are not, contrary to the opinions of some, evil.

Hasta la vista baby... hasta luego amigos

Monday, March 13, 2006

Yum

Managed to escape from work at a reasonable time today, so have just cooked myself this:



Totally yummy. One of my favourite meals ever... and the best thing is that it involves using a glass of wine to flavour the rice, so what's a girl to do but drink the rest!

Sunday, March 12, 2006

Obsessive

I’ve been thinking about this post for a while, and have been prompted to put it up today by an incident with coasters on a coffee table…

We have laughed for some time about Marty’s obsessive compulsive disorder-esque obsession with having the remote controls neatly lined up on the coffee table… so much so that he once gathered four remotes from completely different places in my lounge and left them lined up on the sofa for me! The portable phone must always be on the stand in their house too (unless it’s in use of course), and today I learnt that the coasters must be in the four corners of the coffee table.

Others have similar obsessions too… Richelle can’t bear the toilet roll being on the wrong way round, or sunlight breaking through curtains in the morning, Steve can’t bear wearing crinkled shirts and must squeeze the toothpaste from the bottom (not to mention the fact that he can’t bear polystyrene and cotton wool) and Rich must have the rug at the bottom of his bed straight…

I think my equivalent oddities are that when I’m reading a book, I always turn over the corner of the page at the mid point, and when I’m at work, I always have to have my bottle of water in exactly the same place on my desk, no matter how cluttered it is.

I think the second one is partly to stop me from knocking it over and ruining all my papers though!

We’re all odd.

Monday, March 06, 2006

Normal

Wellllllll........ after a truly horrendous and amazingly complicated week, this week has at least started off a bit better, and I'm hoping (very much) that it's going to stay that way.

Had a very good weekend doing nothing very interesting, including recovering from a stomach bug which gave me the most delirious dreams ever... like changing the time and stopping the Home Secretary from doing a speech... WHAT?!

Also had some fun on Saturday night (photos on Flickr as usual). But actually, the best thing about the weekend was that I did normal things, like washing, ironing, cleaning, sleeping, going out for a walk... you know, all the kind of stuff you take for granted, at least until you come close to losing your possibly already a bit fragile grip on all the balls in the air, and then the boring stuff becomes the most important stuff in the world, because it's normal. And being normal is good. I realise now that I was probably very close to breaking point last week (well, I was closest at 3.30am on Friday morning when I was convinced that I was never going to feel well again, and that I was also never going to be able to sleep again!), and I'm kind of glad in a way that I had the bug, because it forced me to stop and sort myself out. I just hope things don't get that bad again. I don't think they will, but well, you just can never really tell in this job.

Still, on reflection, I love my job, and I love my life, and everyone and everything in it. And I utterly value my friends and my guiding lights in getting me through and allowing me to be me, offering encouragement, support, comment, constructive critism and praise at the right time. I've said it before, but I'll say it again, thank you all.

Big hug x

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Hollow

So, it's a Moeker gig night, and I'm not unleashing a drunken post into cyberspace... something a bit wrong there. I think it must be a combination of a few things: the fact that they were on stage at 8.15, so there was no warm up drinking time; the fact that I'd double booked myself and had to leave straight afterwards; the fact that it's totally completely freezing outside; and the fact that, despite having had both beer and wine, neither appear to have had much of an effect on me.

Talking of the cold, does anyone know whether it's possible for headphones (or possibly (and more expensively) I-Pods) to freeze? Mine was doing seriously odd things on the way home,

I've had a truly horrible day at work dealing with some really shitty issues, and culminating in upsetting a very good friend. I was dealing with the situation to the best of my ability. Today I learnt that sometimes your best just isn't good enough.

But, I did have an excellent weekend in Scotland. Apart from the losing the rugbt and the utterley completely horrendous hangover on Sunday (which was still around yesterday) that is.

A pic, as we've not had one for a while:



And another, of the Scottish drinking gang:



Time for bed.

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

Words



This very cool website created this (found here - it's a pictorial representation of the words found most often in my blog entries.

Interesting.

I've exhausted my blog inspiration (probably for the rest of the month) on the previous post, so I don't have anything deep and meaningful to add today. My thoughts are dominated by something deep and painful - an ear infection. Sob.

Monday, February 20, 2006

Moments

I've been thinking today about the nature of 'moments' of memory. I think what I mean is best described as those snippets of memory which suddenly come back to you when you're in the middle of something, and they have a persuasive effect of distracting you. They happen to me in meetings, when I'm reading, and of course most often at random (and usually inconvenient) times when I'm supposed to be concentrating at work.

They come in different forms. Sometimes they make me chuckle as I remember a comedy moment (the foam ceiling springs to mind here), or they are touching. Perhaps the most distracting ones are the ones which are fixating. They are often recalling the briefest of moments - possibly the moments which I wanted to last longer, or I think I could have handled differently... or I wonder 'what would have happened next if...?'. Those times where there is perhaps just a millisecond of something, and it leaves you wondering what it means.

No point wondering 'what if' though eh. Sometimes I have to remind myself that there will be a lot more 'moments' to be created and then recalled, and they all add to the catalogue. Of course there are some which would be best forgotten, either because they are cringeworthy, embarrassing, or just really don't deserve to be recalled. And of course, these are the ones which come back to haunt me at the most inappropriate times... but I can usually block them out. It's the 'brief moment' ones which stay around... sometimes the tiniest snippets of recollection play on my mind the most. I find myself rehearsing them over and over.

Sometimes I wish I had a thought stick or a dream collector which works on day time thoughts (I'm thinking BFG by Roald Dahl here). I could just get rid of them... or find somewhere to store them until I want to reflect - or until things have changed so much that they paint a different part of the story.

Anyhow, on that note, I'm in five-hours-sleep-a-night-mode at the moment, so tis time for bed. I am trying to make the most of the few hours, and reading for a bit before I go to bed to calm my mind for some serious sleeping. Driving to work does make things much better though - and the sense of victory I feel when arriving at work at 6.59 and therefore avoiding the congestion charge is disproportionately good.

There should be pictures of the car, but as it rained for most of the weekend, there aren't any. In fact, there's been an absence of pictures of late. Must rectify that in Scotland this week - although I fear the quality won't be that high!

Saturday, February 18, 2006

Oh yes

The car is all mine. And it's very cool and very fast.

And now I have more beer.

Oh yes.

Friday, February 17, 2006

Skunk

So. Today I'm not so sober. A rather nice few beers after work has much improved my mood, especially as they were with good company (although I'm never with bad company really!) in a very nice quiet setting where we had table service and were really able to chill out. It's been a hard week that's for sure, and I'm very much looking forward to having a good weekend (including getting the new car of course!)

I did have one of those 'I love living in London' moments on the way home, when I saw my building all lit up and being used for an event, which has also helped to improve my mood. And now Sliding Doors, which is a fab movie (which in my usual style I've seen loads and loads of times) is on the tv, so that helps too.

I think actually that if I redistributed my film watching I'd have watched a lot more - I've watched a few films a lot of times, rather than a lot of films. Still, it's film night at No 28 tomorrow, so that will add some new ones to my list. And they will be accompanied by pie, rice pudding and beer. Sounds like a good way to spend a Saturday night to me.